The Dementia Carers' Respite Team

The Trustees and the advisory council members of our charity have a wealth of relevant experience and are fully committed to achieving its goals. This valuable experience includes the following:

  • Running national and international companies, local community organisations and societies
  • Managing charities
  • Marketing, public relations, media planning and events organisation
  • Fund-raising
  • Specific sector knowledge, for example, experience with Alzheimer's Society UK, Alzheimer's Research International and direct first-hand experience as dementia family carers.

Trustees

Walid Marzouk
Chair

Walid studied Laboratory Haematology, working in the NHS before joining Bayer in the UK and later in France, reaching executive positions. Strongly believing in hard work to make life better for the community, as activist and Councillor, he delivered projects for Hyde Heath, Holmer Green and Little Kingshill. Following the end of his term as Chairman of the local Liberal Democrats party, he decided to move from politics into charity activities by setting up Dementia Carers Respite. According to Walid “we are only here once. Yes, we must have time for our family and friends but giving back to the community we live in, the community which has given us so much over the years, is a duty and a must.” 

A BBC TV item focussed on a full-time dementia patient carer, followed by much research and family carer interviews, spurred Walid to do something about the suffering of many family carers and he hopes this charity will do the same for the reader. 

Parveiz Aslam MBE
Trustee

Parveiz Aslam is a semi-retired teacher living in Buckinghamshire since 1982. Due to his  extensive local work, he received a Queen’s honours in 2008 for his services to the community of Chesham and Buckinghamshire. He is currently involved in a leadership, coaching and advisory capacity in a broad range of charities including The Citizens Foundation and The Community Heartbeat Trust to mention just a few. To have more direct impact in serving his community, Parviez became a Councillor in 2021.

Parveiz said “Although I am extremely busy with so many commitments locally and nationally, when Walid invited me to be a trustee for Dementia Carers Respite, I accepted in a heartbeat and will be definitely making more time available  for this wonderful charity by autumn 2023."

Peter Healy
Trustee

Peter Healy has lived all his life in South Buckinghamshire. After a career in marketing, he retired in 2012 and became more involved in local voluntary work in a variety of organisations in his local village of Holmer Green. He also volunteers for Amersham Museum where he recently became a trustee. Di, who was Peter’s wife, died from Alzheimer’s Disease in 2021 and this has led him to become involved with the Alzheimer’s Society and now with Dementia Carers Respite.

Peter said “As I was a Dementia family carer myself for many years, I know too well the difficulties and challenges they face day in and day out and I hope to put my personal, real-life experience to good use for the benefit of Dementia Carers Respite."

Tim Garnham
Trustee

Tim has over 30 years’ experience in the property industry. He is Development Director of Trust Real Estate. Prior to this Tim was with real estate developer and investor Minerva for 17 years and rose to the position of Chief Executive. He was the Senior Independent Non-Executive Director and Chair of the Remuneration and Nomination Committees of London and Continental Railways. He is Vice Chair of Governors of Queenswood School and Liveryman of The Worshipful Company of Farriers. Married with three children and one unruly Newfoundland, he enjoys travel, skiing, gardening, theatre and film, like most people, we all know someone living with Dementia. The closer we get to this subject the more you realise the terrible plight of many family carers who rarely if ever get a break. They too need time out. Living in Buckinghamshire and hearing about Dementia Carers Respite encouraged him to devote his years of charity experience towards supporting a local charity with national ambitions

Committee

Paula Marzouk
Funding Bidding Officer
Paula Marzouk is married with 2 children and 5 granddaughters and has lived in Buckinghamshire for 30 years. She studied Medical Laboratory Sciences at Trent Polytechnic and worked in laboratory medicine and pharmaceutical research. Later on, she became a Director of a Medical Diagnostics company for 20 years as well a Publisher of a Medical Journal. Paula said "Seeing that social care, in general, is in crisis, and with little chance of a significant increase in government funding, I was keen to get involved and research the dementia family carers situation. With my interest in the medical field and media experience, helping set up Dementia Carers Respite to alleviate suffering of many family carers in Buckinghamshire is something I take great pride in.
Helen Green
Care Coordinator
I have lived in Buckinghamshire for over 12 years and am a mum of two. I have over 20 years' of publishing experience, 15 of these as a Production Manager for the Daily Mail Group, working mainly on home interest titles and the Ideal Home Exhibition. I currently also work part-time at Thermo Fisher Scientific as a Marketing and Office Manager. I cared for my own mother, who had an illness called Lupus, for a number of years. After she passed away, I volunteered for a young carers' organisation – caring is a cause which remains very close to my heart. I really wanted to get involved with Dementia Carers' Respite charity because I know first-hand about the suffering of carers themselves and the need for a well-deserved respite. I am hoping to apply my communication skills and empathy while bringing my media experience to this rewarding role.
Stuart James Siddal
Financial Advisor
“Stuart has lived in Buckinghamshire for 42 years. He qualified as a chartered accountant in 1975 and passed ACT and MCT exams in 1985. He is now a Fellow of ICAEW and Fellow of the ACT. He has held numerous senior finance positions with Price Waterhouse, Balfour Beatty Ltd, Amec plc and later as CFO for Thames Water. He was a Trustee at Brathay (Youth Charity in the Lake District 2000-2005) After retirement he volunteered for Work Aid Chesham before becoming a trustee at Lindengate mental health charity in Wendover until March 2024. With years of experience sitting on FTSE 250 company boards and more than 8 years in the charity world, Stuart brings the valuable specialist expertise the charity needs in terms of professional charity finance and reporting. Stuart says ”Dementia is a growing crisis and to be able to help a local charity whose sole objective is funding much needed respite for family carers is a community duty”.
Brian Whitnall
Bookkeeping

Brian Whitnall has lived in South Bucks for over 40 years.
His working life was spent as an electronics design engineer designing hardware and software for real-time information systems. He was chief engineer for 40 years, and still does some consultancy work in this field.
He has been a volunteer treasurer for small organisations at various times, starting at University.
He has been the treasurer for Holmer Green Village Society since its inception in 2018
He is married to Linda, and has two sons. Linda used to run several weekly swimming groups for the less mobile at Woodrow High House, Amersham prior to her stroke in 2023.
Brian said "Having witnessed the effects of Alzheimer's disease on a close family member and the need for constant caring, I was happy to offer my bookkeeping skills to support Dementia Carers Respite"

Advisory Team

Andrew Ketteringham
Advisor

Andrew Ketteringham, former director of external affairs at Alzheimer’s Society, Vice Chair of Alzheimer’s Disease International, chaired the 2012 ADI conference in London.
"While working to convince the UK government that it should produce a national dementia strategy, I worked closely with those living with dementia, including their carers. During that time, I never failed to be impressed by the love, care and time given by carers. To enable them to undertake their valuable work there is a significant need to provide them some respite from time to time. I am delighted, therefore, to see the need being recognised in Buckinghamshire and a charity being established to meet that need. You deserve our support."

Cllr Dominic Pinkney
Advisor

Dominic Pinkney is the Chief Executive of two charities and a social enterprise, working to increase and develop volunteering and community participation, from large corporations to local volunteering. His in-depth knowledge of running charities and volunteer organisations will be a great source of quality and qualified advice for Dementia Carers Respite. Dominic’s love and endeavour to help and develop communities has led him to become an Amersham Town Councillor where he is already making a difference. “I was delighted to be asked for advice on the set up of this Charity and glad to have helped. I will continue to provide my expertise where I can, to serve this worthiest of causes at a time where our beleaguered NHS and financially stretched councils are struggling to make ends meet,” commented Dominic.

Bob Kottler
Advisor

Bob Kottler is a Chartered Engineer and a Fellow of the Institution of Civil Engineers. He has led the construction of many major civil engineeringprojects in over 55 countries. In retirement he has become involved in a number of volunteer organisations.

Bob said, "I believe that my experience of managing complex projects is very relevant to help me to establish and maintain the processes needed to run the charity with robust systems and paperwork."

Jonathan Waters
Advisor

Jonathan Waters has been a Buckinghamshire Councillor since the new Council was formed in 2020 representing Penn Wood and Old Amersham ward, previously a Chiltern District Councillor. He is retired and previously worked as a Director and Chief Operating Officer with responsibilities covering Finance, Legal, HR and IT. Jonathan serves on a number of council committees and is currently Chair of East Buckinghamshire Area Planning Committee, Vice-Chairman of Strategic Sites and a member of three Community Boards having been Chair of the Beaconsfield & Chepping Wye Community Board over the last two year. In his role as a Councillor, he has seen the ever increasing impact directly and indirectly of dementia to many residents in Buckinghamshire. He sees this charity as providing much needed respite support to the growing army of cares who deserve our recognition.

Caroline Cassels LVO RN
Advisor
After her nursing training Caroline became a staff nurse at King Edward VII Hospital in London. She was promoted to Ward Sister then to Matron, a post she held for 24 years. She was awarded an MVO and an LVO , both awards given personally by the late Queen, HM Queen Elizabeth II. Carolines charity work includes being a Governor to The Charterhouse and Liveryman of The Worshipful Company of Ironmongers. Caroline lives in Essex with her partner Peter and 2 lively cockapoos, she enjoys travelling, theatre and cooking. “ Caring for my late parents with dementia I know firsthand how exhausting it is for family carers. Seeing the passion this small but vital charity has to help those in desperate need for respite, led me to join and help. “ We are sure that Caroline’s wealth of experience will help us to grow and achieve our aims.

Future Plans

As with any new business, building the right team is an essential, yet time consuming task. Dementia Carer’s Respite charity is still in this vital phase of its growth. Over the next few months, we will be recruiting further trustees as well as advisors in specialist fields such as fund raising, project management, customer relationship management (CRM) and finance.

If you have any of these skills and just a few hours a week that you could spare to help in this worthwhile cause, please contact us at support@dementia-respite.org.uk 

All the work we do benefits the full-time family carers and their health and well-being.