Fergal O’Brien Racing has chosen Dementia Carers Respite as their Charity Of The Year

One in three people born today will develop dementia in their lifetime.
Across the UK, almost one million people are currently living with dementia — a number expected to rise to 1.4 million by 2040. That means around six million family members will be directly impacted by this cruel disease, which affects not only memory and cognition but also emotional , mental and physical wellbeing.
While many dementia charities do vital work, Dementia Carers Respite focuses on a unique and often overlooked need — giving family carers a much-needed break. We fund professional, dementia-trained carers to provide respite at home for families who receive no support through Continuing Health Care or local authority services, and who cannot afford private care costing up to £35–£40 per hour or £1,500 per week.
For the majority of dementia carers, life is a 24/7 responsibility. They give everything — physically and emotionally — to support their loved one. Our mission is to give them something simple but powerful: time to rest, recover, and recharge.
A Charity Growing with Purpose
In just over two full years of operation, Dementia Carers Respite has achieved remarkable recognition.
In March 2024, we were honoured to attend the Dementia Mission Reception at
10 Downing Street, followed by being named Charity of the Year by The Chiltern Hospital , and Nationwide in April and June 2025.
Now, we are proud to announce our next step — a new partnership with Fergal O’Brien Racing.
A Partnership Built on Compassion and Community
“We’re incredibly grateful to Fergal and everyone at Fergal O’Brien Racing for their support”
said Walid Marzouk Founder and Chairman of Dementia Carers Respite. “We’ve seen firsthand how passionate they are about helping others, and we know this partnership will bring more much-needed attention and support to family carers.”
Fergal O’Brien and his team have long been advocates for mental wellbeing within the racing community — an industry known for its camaraderie, compassion, and resilience.
“Caring for those who care is something that resonates deeply with all of us,” said Fergal O’Brien. “We’re proud to stand alongside Dementia Carers Respite in helping families who give so much of themselves every day.”
With shared values and a shared commitment to supporting mental and emotional wellbeing, this partnership marks the start of an exciting new chapter.
Together, we aim to raise awareness, expand our reach, and provide real relief to more families silently struggling to care for loved ones living with dementia.
Founder & Chairman
Walid Marzouk

To learn more about us
www.dementia-respite.org.uk https://www.facebook.com/DementiaCarersRespite/
https://www.instagram.com/dementiacarersrespite/ linkedin.com/company/dementia-carers-respite
To learn about Fergal O’Brien Racing
https://www.fergalobrienracing.co.uk; https://x.com/FOBRacing; admin@fergalobrienracing.com

Dementia Carers Respite - Charity Registration Number: 1202451 - Charity Commission. England 

Our 3rd Dementia Awareness Meeting with The Chiltern Hospital

As part of our ongoing Chiltern Dementia Friendly Project, we continue our mission to create a supportive community where people living with dementia can live well and remain active members of society as much as possible — while ensuring that their family carers receive the respite and support they need.
On 29th October, we held our third Dementia Awareness Event with the wonderful support of The Chiltern & Shelburne Hospital.
For a one-hour session, it’s always remarkable how much planning, detail, and behind-the-scenes organisation goes into making everything run smoothly. A huge thank you to everyone involved — especially our Trustee Tim Garnham, and Yin Tso, the Chiltern Hospital’s Marketing Manager, whose help, preparation, and support were invaluable.
Around 30 attendees took part in the session, which many described as both informative and eye-opening, providing a deeper understanding of the challenges faced by people living with dementia and the vital role of their family carers.
The talk was delivered by Sally Blackden, one of Buckinghamshire’s leading Dementia Specialists, who commented:
“It was encouraging to see so many people attend — especially as they gave up their lunch break to do so!”
Our Trustee Peter Helay added:
“People even came back after leaving to respond to an emergency bleep — it was excellent.”
When we commit to something, we always do our utmost to make it happen — often against the odds. We’re proud to have successfully completed our third event, and planning is already underway for a fourth, led by Cllr Rob Gill.
Together, we’re continuing to build a more understanding, compassionate, and dementia-friendly community.

A great 3rd Golf & Dinner Day at Harewood Downs

Our 3rd Golf & Dinner Day at Harewood Downs held on the 2nd of October was a great success all round, with pleasant weather and enthusiastic golfers who had a good enjoyable tournament

The winning team—Graham Geldeard, Mike Thompson, and Alistair McKenzie—received a trophy and gifts from racehorse trainer Fergal O’Brien.

Our dear friend, Commander Stef Bakker managed the golf tournament and served as MC for the evening brilliantly .

Chairman Walid Marzouk opened the evening with an update on the Charity’s growing list of achievements and ongoing needs, thanking Chiltern Hospital represented by Yin Tso, Scott Mitchell, Tanya Franks, and Fergal O’Brien for supporting the event. Mr Stewart Andrew who is the Owner of last year’s Grand National also was thanked for a £1000 donation and for offering his racing colours to promote our Chairity.

Walid went on to highlight the charity’s efforts and events for raising awareness to reduce the stigma linked to Dementia. Thus creating an environment for communities supporting dementia families by making the Chilterns a Dementia friendly place and called for more volunteers.

Scott Mitchell gave a heartfelt speech about Dame Barbara Windsor and his advocacy work to find a cure and support family carers. The usual excellent Harewood Downs dinner was followed by a successful raffle opened by Cllr Rob Gill and Eastender actress Tanya Franks with almost 30 prizes given out.

Traditionally the evening ended with our ever supporting patron Eric Knowles acting as auctioneer . With all auction items sold, we raised a total of £6250, just shy of last year’s £7355 but enough to give much needed professional respite to dementia families

The event was thoroughly enjoyed by all, thanks to the generosity of our supporters. We look forward to seeing everyone again in 2026

A Successful Day at Hyde Run Event

Saturday, 27th September was a wonderful, sunny, and fresh day at Hyde Park for a 5 and 10K run, setting the perfect scene for our Run for Charity event. The aim was to raise funds for Dementia Carers Respite, a charity that raises fund to give respite to dementia family carers who are often mentally and physically exhausted, desperate for a break to recharge their batteries.
We were really delighted to see such enthusiastic participation and support from a group of wonderful people. What was really nice as well is some made it into a family day out in London and stayed on for lunch with families or visited friends.
Chiltern & Shelburne Hospital Support
The event was fully supported by Chiltern and Shelburne Hospitals. Their remarkable staff generously gave up their day, with many undertaking dedicated training to prepare for the run. Everyone arrived bright and early, motivated and ready to give their all—an effort that truly shone throughout the day.
Generous Contributions
Runners and supporters proudly wore T-shirts kindly donated by Air Fresh Limited, based in London. We extend our heartfelt thanks to Lee, Frankie, and Mark Craze for their generous gift of 1,000 T-shirts, which will be invaluable for future events as well.
Gratitude to Key Participants
Of course, the heart of the event was the runners and coordinators, whose commitment and hard work made the day possible. We offer sincere thanks to Chiltern & Shelburne Hospitals for encouraging their staff to volunteer and help us organise and raise funds for Dementia Family Carers. A special mention must go to Yin, a longstanding and enthusiastic supporter of our charity, who always goes above and beyond with a smile. Excitingly, Yin is already looking forward to next year's event!
Thanks to the Dementia Carers Respite Team
We are also deeply grateful to everyone within the Dementia Carers Respite team, whose dedication and effort made this event a reality.
Event Highlights and Fundraising Success
Trustee Tim Garnham and I were present for the entire event, and we thoroughly enjoyed every moment. As of this morning, we have received £895 in donations, and the total is still rising. Well done to everyone involved—let’s aim to reach £1,000!
Walid Marzouk

Singing with Heart: My Town Choir Helps Local Dementia Families

We were thrilled to welcome members of My Town Choir to a recent meeting, where they handed over a cheque for £1028.15 raised at their 2025 summer concert in support of Dementia Carers Respite. Representing the choir were Jo Edworthy, choir director, and Cathy Bruin, one of the choir’s enthusiastic members. Our patron Eric Knowles and chairman Walid were delighted to thank them in person and celebrate this fantastic contribution.

Formed in 2019 and led by professional singer Jo Edworthy, My Town Choir has built something truly special in the community. The group exists to bring people together in two ways: by giving members the chance to make friends, socialise and enjoy the wellbeing benefits of singing in a choir, and by supporting the wider community through fundraising concerts for local charities. The charities supported are suggested and chosen by choir members themselves, and we are especially grateful to Louise Graham, whose nomination of Dementia Carers Respite meant carers and their families directly benefited from the concert’s fundraising.

The choir’s mission is simple but powerful: to share the joy of song with everyone, regardless of musical background or experience. As Jo explained to us: “Everyone has a voice. Unless there’s some physical or audiological reason, I believe that everyone can sing.” This inclusive approach has drawn in a wonderfully diverse group—from confident singers to those who once thought they were tone-deaf but have since discovered the thrill of performing in harmony.
Over time, My Town Choir has raised more than £11,000 for local causes. Their generosity and community spirit are a reminder of how music can ripple outwards, lifting not only the singers themselves but also those who benefit from their support.
For us, that means providing respite for family carers of people living with dementia—time to rest, recharge, and return with renewed energy to their vital role.

A heartfelt thank you to Jo, Cathy, Louise, and every member of My Town Choir for choosing Dementia Carers Respite. Their voices don’t just fill a hall with song – they lift spirits and change lives.

You are cordially invited to a day of golf and an evening of fine dining and entertainment on Thursday, 2nd October 2025. At: Harewood Downs Golf Club, Cokes Lane, Near Amersham, HP8 4TA

Following the success of our previous two events, we are pleased to announce our third annual Golf Day & Dinner at Harewood Downs. This esteemed venue is regarded as one of Buckinghamshire’s finest courses, renowned for its exceptional three-course meals that combine restaurant quality with excellent value and service.
Event Schedule:
11:00–12:00 — Golfers’ Reception & Rolls at the Clubhouse
12:00–17:00 — 18-Hole, Four-Ball Tournament
17:00–18:00 — Refreshments and rest for golfers
18:00–18:15 — Welcome Address from Walid Marzouk
Presentation of Golf Prizes — Commander Stef Bakker
18:15–18:45 — “Being a Dementia Family Carer” by Scott Mitchell – Dementia Champion
18:45–19:45 — Three-Course Dinner
Additional highlights include:
Raffle featuring premium prizes
Exciting Auction for High-Value Items hosted by Patron & TV Personality Eric Knowles
Fees:
Golf Day: £55 per person
Dinner/Evening: £40.00 per person
To reserve your place for the golf tournament, the dinner, or both, please email support@dementia-respite.org.uk which you can also use for general enquiries.
For information about the golf competition, contact Stef at sbkr1964@gmail.com.
For information on venue please visit website: https://www.hdgc.co.uk/

Please note: spaces are limited and will be allocated on a first-come, first-served basis.

Dementia Family Carers fundraising started with the Chesham Walk now moves to RUN FOR CHARITY in Manchester, Hyde Park and more, to raise another £8,000 by the end of 2025

Join us in raising vital funds for Dementia Carers Respite, a UK charity dedicated to giving unpaid family carers the rest and support they so desperately need.

Every day, thousands of people across the UK selflessly care for a loved one living with dementia. It’s a 24/7 job emotionally draining, physically demanding and often lonely. Some carers go months, without a proper break.
Dementia Carers Respite steps in to help. We provide free professional respite care, giving family carers the chance to rest, reconnect with themselves and feel human again even if just for a few hours.

Want to make a positive impact? Lace up your running shoes and join Team DCR and The Chiltern Hospital in Buckinghamshire, with Friends and Families in our upcoming fun charity running events:

Manchester Half Marathon
Date: Sunday, 12th October 2025
Location: Starts at Emirates Old Trafford County Cricket Club
Names of runners: UMAR ASLAM, MOHAMMED USAM, MOHAMMED TALHA, AMJAD MAHMOOD & PIP FRANCE

Hyde Park 5K or 10K https://www.runthrough.co.uk/event/hyde-park-5k-10k-september-2025
Date: Saturday, 27th September 2025
Location: Hyde Park, London…only a few places remaining
Choose between a 5K or 10K run in one of London’s most iconic parks. A family-friendly, feel-good event for a great cause.

Note: Other than your registration fee you do not need to collect donations or set up your own donation page. Just encourage friends, colleagues and family to donate through this GoFundMe page.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/dementia-carers-respite-24/

You can help whether you are taking part in the run or just want to make a donation:
Donation: Every penny brings relief to Dementia Family Carers
Share: Spread the word. Let your friends and family know about this cause.
Run for Us: Take part in one of the events. Every runner helps us go the extra mile.

Even a small donation can give a family carer time to breathe, something so many of us take for granted. Together, we can make sure no family carer is left behind. Thank you for supporting Dementia Carers Respite

4 events in 2 weeks for Dementia Carers Respite Part 2

4 events in 2 weeks for Dementia Carers Respite Part 2

Charity volunteers have fun at events while helping good causes.

Close on the heels of Chesham Christmas market, Dementia Carers Respite was present at the Amersham Christmas Festival on the 2nd of December when Cllr Mimi Harker OBE, Cllr Mark Roberts and Mayor Dominic Pinkney visited us. During the day, we enjoyed a number of discussions with visitors including potential volunteers and raised money by selling Christmas Cards. We have our name down already for 2025.

Dementia Carers Respite Run for Charity: Run to Give Carers the Gift of Rest

Run for Charity

Every step you take gets Dementia Carers Respite (DCR) closer to ensuring family carers of people living with dementia have the break they so deeply deserve. Every finish line you cross is a life you change.

Unbelievably in the UK, 45% of people with dementia depend fully on a Family Carer because they do not qualify for NHS or Council support and have no means for the cost of private care. It is where DCR comes in and why we need your help.

Caring for a loved one with dementia is an act of profound love, but it can also be an unrelenting responsibility. The exhaustion, both physical and emotional, can be overwhelming.

Imagine being able to offer family carers—those unsung heroes—a precious moment of rest. A moment to breathe, to recharge, to simply be themselves, knowing their loved one is in the safe hands of professional carer.
This is what Dementia Carers Respite is all about.

Many good charities exist but we are the only charity dedicated to closing the gap, funding respite for family carers so they can continue their vital role with renewed strength and resilience. But we can’t do it alone. We need you.

By signing up for the Dementia Carers Respite Run, you’re not just running you are fighting for the dignity of family carers and the people they love. You’re giving family carers the chance to sustain their love and care without breaking under the weight of it.

DCR have secured amazing and exciting venues for you to run, places that will inspire you as you make a difference. But remember, places are limited and will be filled on a first-come, first-served basis.

Use the link below to select your preferred venue and secure your spot today. https://runforcharity.com/dementia-carers-respite/bespoke

If you have a specific venue in mind that isn’t listed, don’t hesitate to reach out to us and we will do our best to make it happen for you. Contact us at support@dementia-respite.org.uk

Run for Charity

Dame Barbara Windsor, Dementia & Scott Mitchell

Dame Barbara Windsor and Scott Mitchell were married for 27 years, in the latter years when she was living with dementia, Scott became her family carer, that is why he refers to these years as “the good the bad and the ugly “

Above is a photo of the cover of his book which he has kindly personally autographed to Walid & Paula Marzouk. Many thanks Scott, a lovely gesture, Paula and I will enjoy reading it.

I first met Scott at No 10 Downing Street on the 20th March for the Dame Barbara Windsor Dementia Mission when we had a small chat and agreed to meet.
Being very busy people, we finally managed to have a Zoom meeting recently, which was informative and enjoyable.

Scott has trained as an actor, and is now an agent to actors, People’s Champion to Dame Barbra Windsor Dementia Mission with £160 million planned for research and treatment. He is also Ambassador to Alzheimer’s Research UK and in his “spare time” he supports carers organisation such as ours.

The Zoom meeting was held initially with Paula and myself (see photo below, left is Scott ( photographer is now sacked !!).

Trustee Peter Healy joined later and we are delighted to say that Scott is willing to support us where and when he can. The newsletter we are planning to issue in the coming days will have a “Day in the Life” of a dementia family carer, to which Scott have agreed to provide at some stage first hand experience and he is happy to speak at events that we organise in the future, knowing that part of Buckinghamshire was Barbara’s old stomping ground where she perfected the phrase      GET OUT OF MY PUB.
I know this Zoom meeting is the start of good long-term cooperation between our Charity and Scott Mitchell.